Suffice it to say that at some point I threw up my hands and said, “well, I guess it just wasn’t meant to be.”It was a throwaway, a placeholder uttered in exasperation. Leaderboard 1To clarify, the phrase “It just wasn’t meant to be” implies a certain kind of predestination. Rather a kind of benevolent predestination; the kind that is normally associated with some kind of god or divine force. What I was really saying is “it just wasn’t meant to be… and that’s a good thing no matter how shitty it seems.”Such an outlook seems immature. Leaderboard 2I’m not trying to convince you to change your belief system (I myself am an agnostic.

Source: Daily Sun September 05, 2016 21:33 UTC